Instructions
Overview: One strategy that can help teens be open to bridging differences with people who seem different is nurturing an underlying belief that it’s worthwhile to notice and appreciate cultural and social diversity. Talking to teens about times when different perspectives and lived experiences have helped solve both small and large problems can be a way to build up their awareness of why diversity is valuable.
Activity: While you’re driving, doing dishes, or taking a walk together with your teen, you can begin a conversation about the value of recognizing and celebrating differences by sharing examples of diversity in movies (e.g., We Grown Now), music (e.g., Recording Artists And Music Professionals With Disabilities (RAMPD)), or podcasts (e.g., Tell Them I Am). You can also talk about the challenges that arise from a lack of diversity (e.g., race and gender, and religion in movies). Alternatively, while you’re watching a movie or listening to music with your teen, you can ask questions to provoke curiosity around whose voices are amplified and what types of stereotypes show up. You can take inspiration from and adapt the following prompts using a familiar conversational style that feels natural for you.
- First, talk about what diversity means to each of you, in general.
- How is diversity an important value for your family? Why?
- How can a lack of diversity lead to inequity and injustice?
- Referencing the movie or music as an example, what have you noticed about which identities are represented and which ones are absent?
Share with your teen how you’ve been thinking about recognizing and valuing diversity in everyday places like your workplace or your neighborhood. You can also share the story of your own personal experience with diversity.
- How have people of diverse identities in these settings shown an openness toward one another?
- How have their diverse perspectives helped them to work on shared goals in these settings?
- Who has leadership positions in these settings. Who doesn’t? Why?
- How have their different perspectives enriched the workplace and the broader community?
- In what ways do these settings promote valuing diversity?
- How has valuing diversity helped you with making friends?
Invite your teen to share about their own experiences being with people of different cultural or social backgrounds in school, for example. You can adapt the language in the following questions using a conversational style that’s familiar for you and your teen.
- How are different identities recognized and valued in your classrooms?
- How do your friends show they value diversity at school?
- How has valuing diversity helped you to get to know and talk to people of different identities at school?
- Do student clubs have representation from diverse cultural and social backgrounds?
- Are students of different identities represented in leadership roles? If not, why?
- How can you advocate so that students with a broad range of identities are included and feel a sense of belonging in student groups at school?
Beyond their school, invite your teen to share what diverse cultural and social identities they notice in other settings within their communities such as their city councils, parks and recreation programs, and volunteer settings.
- How have you seen our community demonstrate that it values diversity? In what areas is there room for improvement?
- What do you notice about who often has their voice amplified in conversations in our community?
- What might you do to advocate for appreciating people of different social and cultural identities within our community?
- What can we do together to promote valuing diversity in our community?
- How can valuing diversity be clearly visible and embedded in all aspects of our community rather than merely symbolic, performative, or superficial one-off efforts?
- How can valuing diversity open the door to bridging differences with people who seem different?
- How can noticing cultural and social identities help you to become aware of inequity and injustice?
- How might a lack of awareness or recognition of diverse identities (e.g., “color evasion” or “not seeing color”) keep you from noticing inequity and injustice?
- What can you do to act for justice for people who experience discrimination based on their cultural or social identities?
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